it’s finally here!!! a femme fashion friday especially dedicated to genderqueer/nonbinary folks! i created fff to be a safe space for all femme-identified people to share our fashion and validate each other. due to some thoughtful feedback, we recently had a femme fashion friday just for femmes of color. i’d like to continue on that trajectory and work to represent another group of femmes who deserve way more visibility in the femme community!
i can’t consider a space to be safe if it is dominated by privileged voices, mine included. i participated in the femmes of color edition of fff, but will only be moderating this one since i’m cis. this also means it is doubly important that i make it clear i am open to being called out and want to be corrected. please let me know if i am doing anything offensive or just plain ignorant!
here’s how it will work, on november 15, you can post a photo with the tag “femme fashion friday" or you can submit a post to my blog! i ask that cis femmes not submit, but please “like” and reblog your fellow femmes post with compliments and affirmations (unless a poster specifies they do not want reblogs).
note~ i am not the gender police. i will not be screening submissions for fitting within the parameters of the submission drive. this is a trust based system absolutely; however, if anyone dares to fuck with you, misgender you, or put you down in any way, let me know and i will do everything in my power to take care of it! as a moderator, it’s my job to carry the burden of the negatives and make this experience as positive for all the femmes as possible.
i welcome your input, suggestions, and submissions, of course! mark your calendars and share with all the femmes you know! can’t wait, bbyz! <3
feeling super good about this outtake from my end-of-november hair growth. it’s weird having pubes again.
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